I was asked the other day, what is kinky to me? When I think of kinky I think bondage, swinging, role play, spankings, or the use of different objects (such as candle wax, ect) So when I was asked if giving a prostate massage while giving a hand job was kinky... I said no. He was taken back by that answer... I guess it could be considered kinky. I never really thought about it. My question would be this. Isn't that a dominate act? Or is it submissive if your Master tells you to do it?