Tuesday, January 11, 2011


Hello everybody... I am feeling a bit under the weather today so there won't be any sexy blog posting today. I just can't keep my mind focused on such things.

I did want to mention an email I got this morning on Fetlife. It was quite rude and I hope this person realizes that he has no idea what he is saying. I will spear you his name, at least for now. He went on to say in his email that I don't share my life with him. That I control everything that I say online and he doesn't understand why others are so into me. How can I say I am a sub....

Let me tell you Sir... Of course I control everything I say online. It is my wall, blog, and website. I am nice to everyone I meet and I don't judge anyone. I simply didn't feel a connection with you therefore, I don't have much to say about my private life to you. Secondly, just because I am a sub doesn't mean I am a sub to everyone.

I hope this post clears things up for you. I would like you to apologize for your tone but if not that is ok because you will not get any other response from me.

To everyone else out there today...please stay warm and cozy and chat with you later


  1. Wow, there seems to be a lot of asshat-ery on Fetlife today...A friend of mine was insulted by another "dom" who thought he was all that this morning, too...Don't let it get you down; some people think the world revolves around them, and they get pissy when someone comes along and shows them that's not the case. You have every right to control what you have on your websites, and what you share with strangers. Don't let anyone, especially some bully, tell you otherwise...


  2. I agree with Bre. Fetlife is a place to meet, discuss and learn about he lifestyle with others. I don't see it as a place to submit to every Dom/Domme you come by. I would just him to Fuck off then block his ass. You don't need shit like that getting to you. I don't know if it's because of the "lesbian" tag but I've never received any hate male on there. Maybe all the girls need to become lesbians LOL.

    Anyway hope you feel better soon.

    ~Jess XXOO~

    PS Getting 16-24 inches of snow starting tonight in tomorrow night! Lost of time to stay inside and get naughty ;)

  3. I would love to vist you and see real snow. It was 80 here today.

    Maybe I should give up men...it seems you lesbians have a lot less drama.

    But the again the grass is always greener on the other side

  4. You don't need to give up anything because of one stupid guy. Try women if you like, but do it because you are interested in women too, not because one bad apple spoiled your day.

    Look me up on fetlife if you would like. I'm not very active there but you'll find me under neodomtom.