I was asked the other day…What is your idea of the perfect man? I told him, I really don’t know. That when I find it then I will know. I hope this statement is true. The only list of demands I have at the moment is he shouldn’t be married or attached, he must be honest with me, I am looking for that dominate feature, and most important treat me with respect and make an effort to understand the person I am.
I have this online friend (who most of you know) who writes the most incredible blog. http://adauntlessjourney.blogspot.com/ It is as if he writes it for me. He has this perfect understanding of how a sub should be treated and how a Dom should protect his sub. (although, he would be the first to tell you he doesn’t have all the answers)
I talk to a lot of new Doms or people who want to try out the D/s dynamic and I always refer them to his blog. I don’t know if they ever read it but my hope is that they will learn something from it and how important it is to understand their subs and treat them with respect and kindness. It is not about abuse or how to over dominate a person. It truly is about love and the intense reactions couples will receive from such a relationship.